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jSearching for joie de vie

Male (68) looking for Female Tucson, Arizona, United States

Hmmm what makes me stand out??? NOTHING, ABSOLUTELY NOTHING ! I'm just me I do think when ones heart speaks, the mind finds it impossible to object.Could it be the moment I heard my first love story I started looking for something or maybe someone, not knowing how really blind that was. I don't think Friends or Lovers finally just meet somewhere, someplace, sometime.....perhaps they've been connected all along.
Love has no guarantees. If that’s what we are looking for, we should live with a car battery! In my mind good relationships don’t just happen; they take time, patience and two people who truly want to work to be together
I think a great relationship is about two things: appreciating the similarities, and, respecting the differences
There are only four questions of value in life. What is sacred? Of what is the spirit made? What is worth living for, and what is worth dying for? The answer to each is the same: only love.
Love the people God gave you, because he will need them back one day. ..

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Country Preferences

Favorite country artistFaith Hill
Owns land/ranchnope

Christian Preferences

My denomination is:Catholic
Attends churchWeekly

Gaming Preferences

Gaming systemsWii

Appearance

EthnicityOther
National heritageItalian
BuildSlender
Height175 cm
Eye ColorGreen
Hair ColorGrey
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairNone
Best featureSmile
Body ArtScarred
Health ConditionCancer
My AttractivenessAttractive

Situation

Relationship StatusWidowed
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsNot sure
Housing SituationAll is calm
Wants to RelocateMaybe
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Masters
SpecialtyTeacher / Education
Employment StatusRetired
Job TitleRetired Educational Administrator

Leisure & Fun

TV preferencesNews, Documentaries, Dramas, Movies, Sports, Reality shows, Soaps
Favorite TV showsThe Blacklist, The haves and have nots , and anything by Shonda Rhimes
Favorite movies typesAction, Comedy, Romance, Drama
Favorite moviesIt’s more important to me WHO I am watching the movie with !
Music typesRock, Pop, Blues, Jazz, Dance
Favorite artistsThe good ones
Reading selectionBiography, History, Humor, Political, Science fiction
Favorite booksThe Good ones
Idea of funThe BEST thing to have , mutually chosen with someone special and that would be WHATEVER WE want it to be.
HobbiesExercising, Sports, Music, Movies, Dancing, Family, Dining, Photography, Theater, Cooking, Gardening

Personality

SmokerDon't smoke
DrinkingLight / social drinker
Social behaviorOutgoing
Friends describe asFriendly
In High School I was a(n)Jock
Sense of humorSlapstick
My great timeGoing shopping, Trying new things, The movies, TV
Always wanted to try.Do Something Stupid with someone who also has always wanted to do something stupid , because nobody is perfect, and life is pretty boring when you live strictly by the rules. At some point you’ll do something stupid, but we will try not to make that the last thing we do...LOL Or on a quieter note how about Forgiving Someone: we all have your differences with someone, and we may downright hate someone for what they did to us. At the end of the day, forgiveness is much more powerful than hate and forgiveness will bring a sense of relief and happiness for both of us. What a nice way to start something new and fresh, forgiving someone who has done something bad to you.

Views

Political viewsVery liberal
ReligionCatholic
Attend religious servicesOnce a week
Goal in lifeWhen we honestly ask ourselves which person in our lives mean the most to us, and what do we look for in someone ,we often find that it is those who, instead of giving advice, solutions, or cures, have chosen rather to share our pain and touch our wounds with a warm and tender hand. A FRIEND ... A friend who can be silent with us in a moment of despair or confusion, who can stay with us in an hour of grief and bereavement, who can tolerate not knowing, not curing, not healing and face with us the reality of our powerlessness, that is a friend who cares. A true friend reaches for your hand and touches your heart. And if you can touch this ole retreaded heart you will have a friend for life, I only hope I can be as good friend to you as you want me to .. I think a real friend is a connection to life — a tie to the past, a road to the future, the key to sanity in a totally insane world. In my view the only way to have a good friend is to be one...YEP to be good friend

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Sensitivity, Wit, Thoughtfulness
Look for in a partnerI'm looking for an overly weighted, abusive, non relate-able, moronic, asinine, narcissistic, pretentious, cheating, idolatrous, inhibited, dull, couch potato, slobbering, non energetic, poor, uneducated, alcoholic, degenerate, fake, foul mouthed, unemployed, mundane, mentally disturbed, unable and unwilling to think for herself,allergic to life, excuse of a woman ...
???? !!! Weeeeel, Actually .........Totally the opposite of every descriptive word I've written !
Sometimes I crack myself up !!! Its the Samuel Clements coming out in me. I just want you to be yourself.

Kiss me. Be kind. Be Understanding. Tell me a secret. Embrace me comfortably. Be passionate without being too lustful, relish the quiet time! Talk to me. Enjoy our laughter. Have fun with me! Cry with me, Play with me, fuss at me, dream with me Tell me the nickname you've always wanted lol! Let me see your smile light up from across the room when our eyes meet.

Be in decent physical shape. My drive is HIGH.in spite of cancer, 27 surgeries, I am truly an Alpha male...( small m) Without the all the macho and attitude. It's called being comfortable in your own skin with a tiny dab of confidence ????.even though I walk with a cane.

Find me never let me go ...Better yet lets find one another and hang on for life !
On the first dateBYO-everything,Take a cooking class. Have an ice cream social.Do DIY wine tasting, Have a three-course dinner… at different places.Have breakfast for dinner.Head to a theme park.Go to an outdoor movie or concert.Take a coffee walk, Go on a scavenger hunt.Pretend to be a tourist.Watch the sunset.Zoo it.Try a painting class.Belt it out at karaoke.Go to a dance class, Go to a planetarium—or any museum! Visit a psychic. Choose your own adventure...I have lots of ideas it is not the WHAT but more so the WHO that matters !

Sports

Enjoys playingGolf, Softball
Enjoys watchingBaseball, Basketball, Boxing, Martial Arts
Favorite teamBoston Red Sox
Favorite college teamUniversity of Notre Dame

Exercising Preferences

ExercisesWalking, Yoga